Here are some tips for you to tell a guy how much you love him.
1. Be honest at all times:
The first sign of your love for him is complete honesty. Honesty in a relationship
does not mean that you throw everything on his face. It starts with a
honest opinion and extends to telling it all to him without deviating
from the facts. What happens if you try to hide something from your man?
Let’s face it, he will come to know of the truth sooner or later. When
he comes to know about your lies, he will get hurt badly. On the other
side if you tell the truth, he will admire your sense of righteousness.
2. Argue, but the right way:
Arguments are a part of every healthy relationship and God is
yet to create a couple who has not fought even once in their lives.
Arguing is an art and can work wonders if used in the right way. Imagine
if your partner agreed to everything you said, there would be no fun
left in your relationship! What happens when both of you have difference
of opinion about something? Most of the couples try to push forward
their opinions simultaneously. Most of the times this results in lower
respect in each other. Instead if you have disagreement about something,
why not do this- put forward your views and then let your partner put
his views. This method does not result in disagreement and gives fair opportunity
to both of you to put forward your opinion. Try to control your
emotions and talk logically otherwise the exercise will lose its
purpose.
3. Enjoy a new experience together:
Experiencing new things together bring people closer to one
another. When both of you try something new, you act like a team. This
strengthens your bond and also helps you break free from your routine
lives. Who knows, the experience might even make your partner fall
deeper in love with you.
4. Compliment your partner:
Complimenting is an art. A single compliment can do wonders to a
person’s mood. There is a popular myth that it is only the girls who
get complimented by men. However, this is a thing of the past. Imagine
how pleased your partner would be getting a compliment after a long and
nasty day. Complimenting him is a way of telling him how you notice and
appreciate little things about him and tells him how much you care for
him.
5. Avoid criticizing your partner:
Criticisms have a negative effect on all of us. Though it is
claimed that criticisms help a person succeed, it is a wrong assumption
as recent studies have revealed. Criticisms do nothing other than
lowering a person’s self-esteem. When you criticise your partner you
tend to attack his self-confidence and invoke negative feelings among
both of you. Constant criticism is very bad because it would ultimately
result in huge cracks in your relationship. therefore the next time you
are about to comment on his laziness or his choice of clothes, pause for
a moment, think of the consequences and like a true companion, give him
a positive advice. It will speak volumes about your feelings for him.
6. Plan a getaway as often as possible:
Getting away from the world and enjoying in a place where both
of you have nothing to worry about is one of the essentials of a good relationship.
The two of you need to get away from the world occasionally, to remind
each other about your love. Imagine your sweetheart’s surprise when he
finds you planning a quick detour to spend quality time together. It
will not only make him feel loved but would also give him the mental
satisfaction that he can always count on you.
7. Go dancing:
Dancing is a great pleasure. It is one of the most romantic activities
that a couple can do together. When a couple dances together, it brings
them closer to one another. It is a lovely experience as you coordinate
with each other not by words but by your movements. It is a time when
both of your bodies speak to each other. Even if a partner makes a
mistake, it is gracefully forgiven by the other. Dancing not only
improves couple skills but it is also a whole lot of fun.
8. Stand up to him and for him:
A special way to express your love for your partner is by
standing up for him when the situation demands. Standing up and showing
your support for your partner is an easy task but the one that is
difficult and shows your real love for him is when you stand up to him
and confront him on something he might have done wrong. Only someone who
genuinely loves a person would tell him about the wrongs he might have
done. This action would not only help you gain his love but also his
confidence and respect. He will know that you are there to support as
well as correct him in the journey of life.
9. Indulge in occasional ‘Guy things’ together:
Guys have certain things that they love and cannot give up.
Instead of blowing over his plans for the weekend, accompany him to the
stadium and enjoy a ball game together. If your guy is a gaming freak,
ask him to show you his collection and choose a game that the two of you
can play. For any man, a girl who can understand his ‘guy’ needs is a
blessing. He will not only love you for your attitude but will also
start being more comfortable with you. This is way of showing him that
you love him the way he is and things don’t have to be only your way.
10. Let actions speak:
For ages girls have tried to express their feelings for their
men with the help of words. However, many of the men do not appreciate
the use of fancy words and instead believe in seeing them being
implemented as actions in the relationship.
For a man, nothing can be better than having his girl give an
occasional kiss, run into his arms and hold his hand. A woman’s touch
tends to soften the men, who pretend to be very strong externally but
crave for love from within. |